Skip to main content

Empowerment and Change

It is simply incredible to me how much a person can change in one year of his or her life. I mean, if you don't believe me, scroll back in this blog to a year ago and start reading. Sure, I still struggle today with some of the same things I struggled with a year ago, but I am a different person. This time last year, I was crying myself to sleep every night, feeling scared and trapped and wanting to be at home where life was comfortable. Tonight, though, the best word I can use to describe my current state is empowered.

They say that knowledge is power, but I think that a lot of people consider this phrase in far too narrow of a context. I don't think it's referring simply to the kind of knowledge you get from reading books or performing scientific experiments because there's a kind of knowledge that is far more powerful, and that is the knowledge you gain through experience and self-reflection. By taking time to just step back for a bit and consider how different I am now from a year ago, I can see how much I have grown. Take that back even two years ago? The difference is staggering.

Tonight, I sat down and did a 22 page reading assignment at 10:00 at night, something I never would have been able to accomplish a year ago. When I closed that book, I was so proud of myself. I know to some people that may seem insignificant, but to me it was a huge victory. I have always been smart, and I no longer feel bad admitting it, but my intelligence has always allowed me to skate by for the most part (well, that and my uncanny ability to communicate with teachers). I never really challenged myself, though, because at the time I didn’t think I could succeed, but now I recognize it was because I just literally did not know how to do my work.

Until this summer, I always felt like there was this driven, hard-working, extremely successful student just stuck inside of me, and I wanted so badly to be able to be that person. I never understood why I couldn’t be her, why I couldn’t just sit down and do my reading assignment or why I always waited until the last minute to do things even when I planned not to. Now, I look at all my reading assignments, and even though it feels a bit overwhelming, I don’t give up or procrastinate, I just sit down and start marking things off my list.

This semester is going to be a challenge, but instead of being scared of it or nervous about it, I’m just really excited.

It’s a beautiful thing to lie in bed and realize you’re the person you always knew you had inside of you.

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

Love Monologue from the movie Stardust

Yvaine: You know when I said I knew little about love? That wasn't true. I know a lot about love. I've seen it; I've seen centuries and centuries of it. It's the only thing that made watching your world bearable. All the wars, pain, lies, and hate, made me want to turn away and never look down again. But to see the way that mankind loves! I mean you could search the furthest reaches of the universe and never find anything more beautiful. So, yes I know that love is unconditional, but I also know it can be unpredictable, unexpected, uncontrollable, unbearable, and strangely easy to mistake for loathing. And, well, what I'm trying to say, Tristan, is.. I think I love you. My heart it feels like my chest can barely contain it, like it doesn't belong to me anymore; it belongs to you, and if you wanted it, I'd wish for nothing in exchange: no gifts, no goods, no demonstrations of devotion, nothing, but knowing you love me, too. Just your heart in exchange for min...

Why Lent?

Earlier today, I tweeted something about Lent, and then I decided that my impression of this tradition is far too complicated to confine to tweets. Essentially, I do not understand the point of Lent the way that most people choose to celebrate it. I get the basics of it, you give up something for 40 days because Jesus wandered the desert for 40 days while fasting, and you want to show Him your love and devotion by giving up something of yours for Him. Here's the thing, though, after those 40 days, Jesus went out and began His ministry. His 40 days of fasting were in preparation for Him to give His life to the salvation of the world. The idea behind Lent is that if you give up these things that we don't realize we spend so much time doing, you can then devote that time and energy to God through service, prayer, devotional time, etc. Lent is supposed to be a time where you not just make a sacrifice of something you like but where you spend time reestablishing your connection with...

I am not okay...

For weeks now, I have been in a downward spiral. I don't know when it started or why, but I have reached the point where I no longer feel in control, a point that I have been terrified of since I first sought help a year and a half ago. I feel constantly lonely, searching for companionship in the worlds of fantasy TV shows and books, just like I did with Harry Potter when I was growing up. I can't sleep at night. I fear the loneliness, so I keep reading or watching TV because I know as soon as I stop I will feel the weight of my world pinning me to my bed with no where else to go, no one to lay next to me and hold me and bear part of the weight with me. My ability to be rational or reasonable, all of my strength and confidence, they've disappeared. Instead, I go day-to-day mostly just existing until the night hits, and then I just feel pain. I can't remember the last night I didn't lay in my bed and cry. I have shut down, and the only reaction I have to anything is...